There are times in life when events are meant to be celebrated. This year, my daughter graduated from college and turned twenty-one in the same week, which we thought was cause for a grand celebration. We debated how to celebrate this occasion and decided a Tea Party on the Patio would be fitting. We have always wanted to do tea since our days revolve around what teas to drink and when we should have tea seriously they do.
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We have a lot of parties on my patio, and for years, I have wanted to set up big, long tables for a large gathering of friends. with fifteen invited quests, this was a perfect time. We sent out invitations early so we would know how many to expect, thinking maybe half would come, but the RSVPs started coming in, and we realized we would have a full house.
I enjoy planning parties, but it can sometimes be stressful; after all, you want everything perfect. I suggest deciding early on what you want and then making lists and timelines of when to get things done.
I created this to-do list three weeks before the party to start thinking about what I needed to do.
I know you are thinking that is a lot of decision-making. Don't stress about it; just plan your party for what you want and can do. If you want elegant and can pull it off, do it; if you want casual with paper plates, do it. It's your party, so make it fun.
Keep updating your list and timelines to stay organized and stress-free.
Coming up with our menu for a tea party was the most fun ~
Tea is a priority in my day, and I have a cabinet dedicated to my favorite teas, mostly Oolong, Pu Erh, Earl Grey, Jasmine Green, and Darjeeling, plus several blends. Harney and Sons Teas are one of our favorites for their variety and quality of tea. You can get the same Earl Grey tea here.
With the party on Saturday, we started prepping early in the week by cleaning and organizing the table setting. On Tuesday, we made a trip to the store and bought everything we needed, and we never had to go back. Since the tart shells and shortbread cookies keep well for days, we made them on Wednesday. Get as much done early so the day of the party, you are just doing final baking, picking up rented items and setting your table.
The day before the party was our big baking and flower-arranging day, which was fun. The house smelled like a bakery and a floral shop. Our cupcakes and scones were baked by evening, and the strawberry curd was cooling in the fridge. We had flower arrangements all over the house. We even cleaned the patio and set up the tables.
Our party started at 2:00, so Saturday morning meant setting up and final food prep. Early in the morning, we made the sandwich's fruit salad, filled the tart shells with strawberry curd and made the whipped cream. We had two hot water kettles ready to make the tea.
Before noon we had everything ready to set out when we were ready to serve.
I couldn't wait to start setting the tables with all the beautiful dishes and flowers.
We started the morning by bringing out the dishes for the tables. I was so happy to use my grandmother's Flow Blue and Willow Ware china. We combined both sets to have enough table settings, and the two patterns were the same color and looked so lovely together.
Teacups are a must for a tea party. I love the design on the inside of these Flow Blue cups; they are just so elegant.
The Willow Ware table setting has always been one of my favorites.
The beautiful tea party table setting ~ I love the blue
The guest of honor ~ Bevyn getting ready for her guests
We filled the platers with scones, the small bowls with fruit salad, and the cake stands held the sandwiches, tarts, cupcakes, and macarons. All the food and pots of tea were within easy reach of the guests, so there was no passing of plates since everything was in front of them; this allowed everyone to sit and eat, drink tea and chit-chat without having to get up.
Sharing good food, pots of tea and wonderful conversations with friends and family
Bevyn had a table to show off her accomplishments. So proud to have such an amazing daughter graduating in three years Suma Cum Laude from Sonoma State University. She is happily employed by her favorite organization, the California FCCLA.
Interested in making some of the baked goods we served?
The Rose Petal Shortbread Cookies were a standout winner.
The Lemon Cupcakes with Blackberry Buttercream were from my cake recipe.
Thanks for letting me show off my party setup, and I hope you found some inspiration for your next get-together.
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About Jere' Cassidy
From learning to cook on a farm in Indiana to culinary school in California, my passion for food is never-ending. Turning on my oven to bake something for friends and family is my happy place. I am glad to be sharing sweet and savory family-friendly recipes for your cooking and baking inspiration.
Marthana Sharp
I so love all those vintage blue plates, they look like willow ware. You have the perfect setting for a tea party. This post is so inspiring.
Mary
The plates and the setting are so beautiful. What a wonderful way to celebrate this occasion.
Jere Cassidy
Thanks, they were my grandmother's plates.
Lizzie
Great party planning tips! We have a whole shelf of different types of tea here, my husband got rwandan and keemun tea for fathers day to use with his reusable tea bags. I may borrow some of your ideas, as we're planning a ceilidh for our 10th wedding anniversary.
Jere Cassidy
I had to look up what a ceilidh was, that sounds like fun. My husband is Irish - Cassidy and have been to a lot of parties with fiddle music and dancing. We love those reusable tea bags.
Amy | The Cook Report
Looks like a beautiful day and there's so many great takeaways from your experience!
Marie
Fantastic tips for planning a tea party! Your tea party looks like it was so much fun!
Jere Cassidy
Glad you liked the post.
Brian Jones
What a fab looking spread, I gotta get an invite to one of your parties.
Jere Cassidy
We just decided today to have another party in August. Come on over.
Natalie
What a wonderful tea party! I never attended a proper tea party before, but it always sounds so fun!
Jere Cassidy
We did have fun, I was such a memorable experience.